Loneliness

A little connection can make a big difference

Loneliness and social isolation can affect anyone, at any stage of life. Sometimes, people around us may be feeling lonely without us even realising.

We can all play a part in helping someone feel more connected, supported and included.

So, how can we help someone experiencing loneliness?

Buckinghamshire Council recommends a simple approach called the 3 A’s: Ask, Assist and Act.

ASK – Start a conversation. Take time to listen and understand someone’s circumstances. Ask about their friendships, relationships and the connections they have with others.

ASSIST – Find out what might make a difference. Would they like information about local activities, community groups or support services? Remember, everyone is different, so support should reflect their individual needs and preferences.

ACT – Help them take the next step. Is there a class, club or activity they might enjoy? Could you help them make contact with a local group or introduce them to new people?

Remember, it’s not about having all the answers. Sometimes, a friendly conversation, a little encouragement or simply taking the time to listen can make a real difference.

Let’s look out for one another and help make our community a more connected and welcoming place.

Find out more:

Buckinghamshire Council – How can we support someone experiencing social isolation or loneliness?

https://www.buckinghamshire.gov.uk/health-care-and-community/joint-strategic-needs-assessment/mental-health-data-and-analysis-jsna/social-isolation-and-loneliness-guide/how-can-we-support-someone-experiencing-social-isolation-or-loneliness

Useful links to include or share separately

The Council’s wider guide also signposts people to some useful local services. I’d recommend including these in the accompanying post or a follow-up comment.

OrganisationHow it can helpWebsite
Joy MarketplaceFind local activities, groups and servicesVisit Joy 
Age Better BucksSupport for people aged 65+ to maintain independence and confidenceVisit Age UK 
Age UK BefriendingShort-term support for adults experiencing lonelinessFind Age UK support 
Citizens Advice BucksHelp with financial difficulties, debt, housing and employmentVisit Citizens Advice Bucks 
Community Transport HubHelp accessing transport and social opportunitiesVisit Community Impact Bucks 

Source: Buckinghamshire Council – Further information and support .

Published
5 November 2026
Last Updated
5 November 2026